请珍惜你身边的女人

女人有時真的好傻，可以為了愛一個男人，而拋下自己的父母，來照顧那男人的父母；但男人不用

女人有時真的好傻，可以為了愛一個男人，而寧願自己挺顆又重又大的球十個月，只為了替那男人生下一個跟男人姓的下一代；還得承受生完小孩後的體質變差、身材變形的後遺症，但男人不用

女人有時真的好傻，可以為了愛一個男人，而放棄一卡車追求他的好男人，只為和男人長廂廝守，卻埋沒了最美的青春；但男人卻不為青春所懼，反而愈老愈值錢

女人有時真的好傻，可以為了愛一個男人，而放棄父母給她二十多年的姓，而跟著老公姓，又被冠上'太太'二字；但男人沒變

女人有時真的好傻， 可以為了愛一個男人，而早上上班，晚上煮飯做家事帶小孩，有工作也有家事的壓力；但男人沒差，反而多了個賺錢的人和不用給薪的女傭

女人有時真的好傻，可以為了愛一個男人，而去適應一個完全不同的家庭和面對男人的親友團批評，女人懂事的試圖尋求男人的保護時，換來的是...男人不僅沒有保護他的女人，反而一起落井下石，在一個女人孤力無援的環境裡~~~

男人啊 ！ 若你您的身邊有這樣的一個傻女人時，請當她的笨男人，好好的珍惜她、照顧她吧

別忘了，她不是天生就該來照顧你們全家大小的，女人很單純也很懂事，只要當她受傷時，好好傾聽她、支持她、保護她，為她拭淚，她就會感動一輩子

更別忘了，當男人年老時或生病時為您把屎把尿的，絕不是已老的也要您照顧的父母，最有可能的就是從年輕到老，始終在您身邊的女人。

女人们，你们赞同吗？
男人们，你们有珍惜吗？

Story to live by

Story to live by

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only seethe world, I will marry you.'

有一位瞎女很討厭自己因為眼睛瞎了。她也討厭每個人，唯一不討厭的是她的男朋友，因為他都常守在她身旁。於是她對她的男朋友說：「如果能讓我看到這個世界，我愿意嫁給你！」

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.
有一天，有人捐了一對眼精給她。當紗布解開時，她能夠看到一切，包括她的男朋友。

He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.
男朋友問她：「現在你可以看到這世界，你愿意嫁給我嗎？」那女孩看了男朋友是個瞎子，他那對蓋上眼皮的眼睛嚇到了她，這是她無法想像。她想：要我嫁給他而一生面對他這個樣子，我無法接受。

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

於是，她的男朋友很傷心的離開她，幾天後寫了字條給她：「親愛的，請你好好照顧你的眼睛，因為它不是屬於你的之前，它是屬於我的。」

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

這也是人的腦會如何做當情況有所變動。只有少許人會記得他或她之前的生活及誰會在身旁當他或她處在困境的時候

Life Is a Gift

生命是一份禮物

Today
before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.

今天，當你要講一句不善之言－－請想想那些無法講話的人

Before
you complain about the taste of your food -

Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

當你要埋怨食物的味道時－－請想想那些沒有食物吃的人

Before you complain about your husband or wife -

Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

當你要埋怨你的先生或太太時－－請想想那些在向上天哭訴要一個伴侶的人

Today
before you complain about life - Think of someone

who died too early on this earth.

今天，當你要埋怨生活時－－請想想那些太早離開人世間的人

Before
you complain about your children - Think of someone

who desires children but they're barren.
當你要埋怨小孩時－－請想想那些渴望小孩而無能生育的人


Before
you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.


當你要爭論沒有人清理屋子時－－請想想那些住在街邊的人
Before
whining about the distance you drive - Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

當你在哀訴駕駛的路程－－請想想那些同樣的路程以代步的人

And when
you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your
job.
當你很疲備而埋怨工作時－－請想想那些無工作，殘疾的，及那些多麼希望擁有你這份工作的人


But
before you think of pointing the finger or condemning
another -

Remember that not one of us is without sin.

當你想要指著人或互相譴責時－－請記得沒有一個人是無罪

And when
depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on
your face and think: you're alive and still around.
當壓抑的念頭讓你無法振作時－－請你笑一笑想想：你還活著存在世間！
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I PRAY
THIS MOVES AROUND

THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE...




我祈禱這訊息能夠繼續傳至全人類................

Too beautiful not to share...................

My First Nanny's Job

Wow... My first nanny's job handle by myself alone is to take care of my friend's HAMSTER. =)

Anyway, it's a simple and easy nanny's care cause it isn't trouble me much. All I need to do is to feed her, clean clean her room. That's what her mom told me.

She has no name yet, cause her mom is too busy to think bout a good name for her. So, I decide to name her 'Ngong Bo' (foochaw, means silly girl) or 'Tang Nia Bo' (foochou also, means greedy girls). 1st one is because of her "silly's" mom. 2nd is because her attitude, she like to sleep a lots, I not sure cause she travel so far from my friend's house to airport & back to my place or she really likes to, but whenever I touch her food's pack, she will awake and stand still watching me and waiting me to feed her. Really funny things.



This is my new experience, got a pet to accompany me, not bad feeling till now. So, I plan to train Ngong Bo to like me more then her mom cause I realise her mom might not have enough time to built a good relationship with her yet. haha.... So, don't blame me if it really happens.

Any one know what more shall I do to take good care of her or how to win her trust, please do let me know. ^^

Accident Again....

What a shoot!!! This is the 2nd time my car's ass being hit from the back & again.... have to repair.

This was the 4th time her ass being hit, 2 times earlier while I parked it at the front of the shop house, we guess is by those people who drive car after drunk. Once in front of the traffic light when I am on my way to attend Sunday Mass, also the first accident I met. Had to say I still quite lucky cause the guy hit me willing to bear all the cost for repairing it.

This is the worst case compare with the previous one, and I wander why such a short distance can cause the most serious damage on her ass.

The accident happen when I on my way back after send my colleague back from our badminton session every Sunday afternoon. It's a little bit jam at the road, so, the movement is really slow and keep on stopped. My car again being hit from the back in this traffic jam period, and I felt it's a strong hit compare with the first time of my accident. The first things jumped into my mind is "My Goodness!!! My car being hit AGAIN!!!!????? What a SHOOT!!!". It really make me short when i saw the damage.... Wow.... how great were she, such a short distance can cause the most serious damage in this 4 time of incidence.

Left bottom is the Proton Saga Aerobat who hit me, see, only the front of her car is that depression, but I had lost the whole back.

The reason she gave me is, her son was facing another accident not far away at the front, so she didn't pay full attention and she also didn't notice why and how she can hit me suddenly. I am sure she must be talking with other people in the phone, and not paying attention to road condition. That's why she hit my car.

I just realise Miri's workshop service is really can fight with KL cause just a minutes after my car being hit, there are about 3 or 4 car stopped by and started to called for help. At first I thought there are very good guy willing to help me, but after they pass me the name card..... haha.........

At last, I called my own workshop to help me settle all the things for me. The women hit me doesn't want to settle it by herself, so we have to go to report at the Police Station for the accident, then have to take time to wait for the confirmation from the insurance company about the claim.

Another things I learn from this case is, the difference between 1st and 3rd party insurance. If our car is under 1st party Insurance, then whenever accident happens and we want to claim it with Insurance, we need not pay a cent on the repair, everything is between our Insurance company and the workshop. But if we are holding a 3rd party Insurance, we have to pay all the charges of repair, and then we claim it back from the Insurance company, then if the Insurance company not paying back a full amount, all the rest should be paid by ourself. Luckly, I am holding the 1st party of Insurance now.

Guess what? I received the repair instruction been send to workshop after 9 days!!! My goodness!!! No wander many people doesn't like to claim car insurance if it's only a minor accident or damage on the car.

Again, I have to wait 2 weeks plus to finish the repair. In other words, about a month I do not own cars. I have to looking for a friend to accompany me, or directly call a taxi wherever I want to go and it's far away! So inconvenient!

I really miss my car.... When will it be ready????

My little nephew - Eric Pua

My New Family Member

正式向大家介绍.... My new family member, born in 2009 4th Chinese New Year day in Sibu, Sarawak... Now is only around 2 1/2 months old... but is a big & mature baby.

This is the picture when he came out to meet all of us just before we finish our Chinese New Year's holiday.

Just meet the world!!!
So cute, the nurse cover him with a towel to keep warm and looks like a caterpillar... ;)

Sleeping handsome!

Here's come to the 2 1/2 months, haha.... only this short time, he grow bigger (baby sure grow faster then we thought) He seems like knowing we are catching picture with him, he just know where is the place he should focus to, so amazing.... hahaha.... I like that hat I choose for him, he looks cute on it. Just like he's ready to ski....

See! He is smiling and focus on the correct way!
He likes to take photos! Maybe he think he's the Supper Star! At least, now!

He looks happy with his new hat I choose, cute, right?

You know what? Wow, he got '乳沟 ' oh!!!

Is really hard to left a baby after you stay few days with them. Hope he will always happy, healthy, strong and clever! Most important things is grow up becomes a good man in future! Love you, my little nephew, Eric Pua! Muak......

Long time not SEE???

Long time not write a word inside my lovely blog, but feel sad also nobody ever left any words inside my blog as well.... :(

Anyway, this is a new beginning in 2009, see how many blog can i achieve in this year... haha... Gambateh....